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    感情是磨合,不是折磨

      剛才看到一句話說,兩個人的相處不是磨合而是折磨時,要慎重考慮是否要在一起的必要。

      其實人與人之間的相處,在于輕松;感情,在于真誠。我們與人相處,結交朋友,尋覓伴侶,無非就是想讓對方能夠懂你,相處輕松不累,無論是生活,還是事業都能給你正能量,給你溫暖。

    感情是磨合,不是折磨

      好的感情,是靈魂深處的相惜,柴可夫斯基在《我的音樂生活》中有這樣一段話:意見和感情的相同,比之接觸更能把兩個人結合在一起,這樣子,兩個人盡管隔得很遠,卻也很近。

      兩個人相處,目的是相互成長,不傷害彼此。只有思想相同,理想相同,你才會愿意做對方的翅膀,愿意讓TA做你翅膀下的那縷風,用你的翅膀,攜著這份深情與真摯,展翅翱翔。

      與人相處,坦誠相見,不藏著、掖著,磊磊落落,才不會在相互猜忌和防備里,將一份情分道揚鑣。不管與誰相交,要學會理解,常常學會換位思考。

      我不喜歡情感在爭吵中度過,這樣的感情彼此都累,我喜歡感情是溫和的,相互是溝通的。爭吵,只會讓情意越來越淡,很多好的感情,都是在爭吵中變淡的。

      彼此爭吵久了,一個人的內心就會產生逃離的情緒。吵架,是最可怕的事情,因此不管是愛情、親情,還是友情都需要心平氣和,相互尊重和懂得。

      有人說好的感情,是吵不散的。那就錯了,吵不散的感,不能說不存在,但是那只是滄海一粟的可能,而每一段分散的情,不是在爭吵中結束,就是在冷漠中成為熟悉的陌生人。

      如果你控制不住自己的脾氣,那就找一個一心一意對你好,且脾氣超好的人與你共處。一般脾氣好的人,不是他(她)脾氣真的好,而是心底很善良。

      倘若你身邊正有一個這么好脾氣的人陪著你,就學會珍惜吧!因為只有在乎你的人,才能忍受你的壞脾氣。正如林徽因,她脾氣些許暴躁,可是梁思成確實是脾氣極好的好丈夫,所以即便偶爾爭吵,也一樣傷害不了彼此的感情。

      還有就是楊絳先生和錢鐘書先生的愛情,他們是可遇不可求的曠世情緣。錢鐘書評價楊絳是,最賢的妻,最才的女。因為楊絳的脾氣特別好,家里家外她都打理的井井有條,從來不讓錢鐘書有所操心。

      在她眼里,他是她的知心愛人,琴瑟和弦,鸞鳳和鳴,他就是一個可愛,又長不大的孩子。一個男人也只有在他愛的人那里,才會變得像個孩子。

      愛的路上,不問誰高誰低?只求在一起快樂幸福,平安健康,輕松自在。遇見,就是緣分,好好珍惜,惟有珍惜,才能在情感的路上走到最后。

      生命苦短,無需思索太多無用的東西,簡單溫暖的守護彼此的平凡,做最快樂的人,成就最美情緣。

      隨筆于12月26晚


      作者:湘楚雁麗,中國楹聯學會和中國詩詞學會會員,公眾平臺,湘楚原創微文(ID:xcyl1208),在冗雜的塵世,自由于喜歡的文字伊甸園。

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